In folklore across Southern Africa, Prof. Sibanda is depicted as a wise elder — a sort of “heart philosopher” who understood the emotional tensions within communities. His teachings were never about manipulating another person; instead, they used metaphor, ritual imagery, and symbolic acts to guide people toward:
- clarity
- accountability
- emotional honesty
- reconciliation
- self-love
- relationship decisions
In NYC’s modern world of ghosting, dating apps, breakneck schedules, and emotional overstimulation, this symbolic worldview fits surprisingly well.
